FIT Love combines relationship psychology, personality science, and advanced AI to provide personalized relationship coaching. Measure Fire, Intimacy, and Trust to strengthen your bond.
Four simple steps to better relationships
Answer thoughtful questions about your relationship, values, and goals. The more complete your profile, the better our AI understands you.
Assess your relationship across three dimensions: Fire (passion), Intimacy (closeness), and Trust. Track changes over time.
Link accounts with your partner to see their perspective, compare FIT Checks side-by-side, and unlock deeper insights together.
Receive personalized, actionable advice tailored to your relationship. Our AI learns from your data to give better guidance over time.
Grounded in proven psychology. Powered by advanced AI.
FIT Love combines six foundational psychological theories with advanced artificial intelligence to provide truly personalized relationship coaching. By understanding who you and your partner are, how you bond, communicate, and handle conflict, and how your relationship is currently feeling, our AI delivers insights and advice tailored to your unique situation.
Relationship Health
Measures the three core dimensions that determine relationship quality: Fire (passion), Intimacy (closeness), and Trust (commitment).
Personality Type
Reveals personality traits that shape how you interact, process emotions, and approach relationships.
How Love Is Expressed
Identifies how you and your partner prefer to give and receive love: words, actions, gifts, time, or touch.
How You Bond & Handle Closeness
Based on Bowlby & Ainsworth's attachment research: identifies whether you lean Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, or Fearful-Avoidant — so guidance paces closeness and reassurance the way you actually need.
How You Express Needs & Feelings
Drawing on the assertiveness work of Salter & Wolpe: maps whether you tend to be Assertive, Passive, Aggressive, or Passive-Aggressive — so guidance is worded to help you say what you mean and be heard.
How You Handle Disagreements
Based on the Thomas–Kilmann model: identifies whether you Collaborate, Compromise, Accommodate, Compete, or Avoid — so guidance helps you and your partner disagree without disconnecting.
Passion & Physical Attraction
The spark that ignites your relationship. How much physical attraction, sexual desire, and passionate energy do you feel?
Emotional Closeness & Vulnerability
The emotional bond you share. How deeply connected, understood, and supported do you feel by your partner?
Commitment & Reliability
The foundation of stability. How much do you trust, feel secure with, and believe your partner is committed?
Our advanced AI combines your FIT scores, love language preferences, personality type, relationship goals, profile data, and historical FIT Check trends to understand your relationship at a deeper level than any single theory can provide.
Your personality + Partner's personality
Your love language + Partner's love language
Current FIT scores + Historical trends
Deep, Personalized AI Coaching + Services and Product Recommendations
Your relationship, visualized — and a coach in your pocket
From your dashboard to a quick check-in, your results, personalized AI coaching, and your progress over time — FIT Love walks with you every step toward True Love.
Everything you need to strengthen your relationship
Measure Fire, Intimacy, and Trust in your relationship. Get actionable insights on which areas to focus on.
Personalized advice powered by Claude AI. The more you share, the better the insights become.
Link accounts with your partner to see their perspective and work together on relationship goals.
Discover your love languages and your partner's to communicate affection in ways that matter most.
Earn badges as you progress. Stay motivated with celebratory milestones and relationship achievements.
Watch your relationship health improve over time with detailed analytics and trend visualization.
Get professional-level relationship coaching for a fraction of traditional therapy costs
Get personalized coaching anytime, anywhere - no scheduling required
Your relationship data is yours. Secure, encrypted, and never shared without consent
Built on proven relationship psychology and AI-powered analysis
Make decisions based on real insights from your FIT Checks and patterns
Strengthen your relationship as a team with partner collaboration features
Every FIT Check can unlock five insight card bundles. Here's exactly what's in each one.
Plus ✝️ Scripture or 💭 Reflection — optional, only if you opt in, adapted to your stated belief.
Your plan: right now → 6 months
One 6-step plan across six horizons:
What to say — and how to say it tonight
See it through their eyes
Break the cycle + repair after a fight
Patterns across your FIT Checks over time — appears from your second FIT Check.
A supportive read of how your partner is feeling after their FIT Check.
Launching first in the United States. FIT Checks will always be unlimited and free — only the AI Advisor is tiered.
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Get started with no commitment.
Per FIT Check, no subscription
Unlocks the complete deep analysis — every advice card for that FIT Check, generated by our most advanced AI model, with no ads.
Everything automatic, ad-free
Best for couples actively working on their relationship.
FIT Love is launching in 2026
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Questions or feedback? Email us at support@fitlove.ai